I like this idea: One purpose in life is to build a character - a way of living and moving in this world - that you are proud of. Shaping and embodying this character becomes a main priority. Above wealth. Above fame, etc. Once you decide upon careful reflection the values and virtues you wish to bring forth in this world, then it acts as a filter/sieve for which actions and behaviours that are available to you. The rest is simply no longer of consideration. Of course, not so easy to implement, but you can practice this constantly, day in and day out. Some quotes on character by the mighty Marcus Aurelius: "It can ruin your life only if it ruins your character. Otherwise, it cannot harm you-inside or out." "Settle on the type of person you want to be and stick to it, whether alone or in company." "You fail your soul when you fail your principles." "Your task is to stand straight; not to be held straight." "I was once a fortunate man but at some point fortune abandoned me. But true good fortune is what you make for yourself. Good fortune: good character, good intentions, and good actions."
