Bitcoin pioneer taken to c̲̲o̲̲u̲̲r̲̲t̲̲ in 2024 for creating Samourai b̲̲i̲̲t̲̲c̲̲o̲̲i̲̲n̲̲ w̲̲a̲̲l̲̲l̲̲e̲̲t̲̲. Freedom is becoming riskier by the day. We are mutating to slaves with b̲̲a̲̲n̲̲k̲̲s̲̲ as our masters. Don't trust them who a̲̲b̲̲u̲̲s̲̲e̲̲ you! Extend your sovereignty instead. Grow your 𝐟𝐨𝐨𝐝, practice 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐞𝐟𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞, store 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐬 and 𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐬! Even if preparation will not deter martial law, it can provide a backup source for provision and calm to your responses. View quoted note → #prepping #preparation #banks #reminder #digital #money #martiallaw #outbreak #disaster #collapse #crisis #threat #mitigation

Nostriches! What do you think === Is C̲̲r̲̲o̲̲a̲̲t̲̲i̲̲a̲̲ a good country to live in? == What do you need from a country so you want to stay? === View quoted note → #asknostr #countries #world #experience #economy #life

Girls be like... View quoted note →

Some things just need to be taught. View quoted note → #lifehack #cooking

Wir wollen ein freies Internet und keine Lügen. Bildquelle: pareto.space #lang:de #internet #freiheit #stoppt #netzdg #zensur #politik

Benevolent leaders recognize this, reject same-sex any access to marriage structures and encourage and support married couples to raise healthy generations! We are looking at the effects of past mistakes and doubling down. Who are these men, who are these women? Deranged people taking what isn't theirs. The only valid form of state support is serious mental health treatment. Give kids their parents back! View quoted note → #samesex #marriage #health #mentalhealth #degeneracy #government #courts #ruleoflaw #legislation

Wow! This Hindawi Group study (Egypt) actually exists and is shocking. What exacly is "same-sex marriage" supposed to be again? and how can anyone consider it to be acceptable that anyone, especially small children, is raised and dehumanized like this? We notice again and again: You, and me, and everyone needs both Mom a̲̲n̲̲d̲̲ Dad! View quoted note → #samesex #lgbtq #parenting #abuse #depression #obesity #exploitation #child #trafficking

Fake news? Staffordshire report from "2013". View quoted note →

Is that true? Jews avoid + and x for (﬩ and ○) because they hate Christianity? Almost as bad as feminists hatred of men? So... what's a Jewish feminist woman like? View quoted note → #religion #judaism #christianity #women #men #jews #christians #feminism #hatred #censorship #symbols

When it comes to sexism, simply asking "Who e̲̲a̲̲r̲̲n̲̲s̲̲ m̲̲o̲̲r̲̲e̲̲" won't solve anything. Sexism and equal pay are barely even related. Even if you consider "structural sexism", setting wages is foremost a f̲̲i̲̲n̲̲a̲̲n̲̲c̲̲i̲̲a̲̲l̲̲ decision. Whoever is perceived to p̲̲r̲̲o̲̲v̲̲i̲̲d̲̲e̲̲ m̲̲o̲̲r̲̲e̲̲ v̲̲a̲̲l̲̲u̲̲e̲̲, will be valued more and receive higher rewards. Why are women not perceived to provide as much in the workforce? Maybe because their contributions at work are actually worse? Low IQ, high "drop-out" rates due to childbirth, menstrual cycles destabilizing performance etc. Men and women are NOT equal and should NOT be treated as such. Provide for your women, attend to your men like nature ordains. Notice that as the physically and cognitively weaker sex, women a̲̲r̲̲e̲̲ at greater risk - modern society tried and tries to to change that - of exploitation, discrimination, abuse etc. This is just amplified when they banish the supportive men out of their life to become their own joke of a "man" in a world of brute force and egomania. View quoted note → #men #women #wagegap #pay #sexism #discrimination #philosophy #nostrtalk #nostrdebate #debate

Can somebody send me links to reputable recent stats on black/white crime rations like such? View quoted note → #asknostr #racism #blacks #whites #crime

Attention, weak modern men, remember how they say v̲̲a̲̲l̲̲u̲̲e̲̲ and s̲̲a̲̲f̲̲e̲̲t̲̲y̲̲ is what women are looking for? Well, when it comes to your meager position, even your long-term partner is looking for a replacement. She has no choice, her desire for s̲̲u̲̲r̲̲v̲̲i̲̲v̲̲a̲̲l̲̲ far surpasses anything you think "you have". View quoted note → #redpill #warning #weakness #men #women #money #survival

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The prison of the mind. View quoted note →

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💡 🫂 Relationships offer many opportunities to grow closer and support one another. This time, it is all about achieving your goals ⛳ in communication. Access it for free by clicking the link above. Support my work by reposting on Nostr and by sending me tons of Zaps 😉 Feel free to add your thoughts below! ⏬ 🌊🏄💏🫂💜 #couples #relationships #guide #communication #goals #advice #dialogue #tactics #patterns #spouses #kids #rhetoric #assertiveness #conflict #resolution #publication #blog #2026 #writing #published #post #share #repost #free #donate #zaps

Nostr is mysterious... Each client I use will show me different events. Could be a relay thing. Fascinating 😁 I will continue my two main clients. If you don't get a reply, my client might have missed it. Sheesh. #nostr #relays #clients #observation #ambiguity #events

Communicating effectively series 3/3 - Requests (#1) vs. Needs (#3) #3 𝓔𝔁𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓷𝓰 a need ◉ F̲̲E̲̲E̲̲L̲̲I̲̲N̲̲G̲̲ ◉ E̲̲X̲̲P̲̲L̲̲A̲̲N̲̲A̲̲T̲̲I̲̲O̲̲N̲̲ ◉ N̲̲E̲̲E̲̲D̲̲ ◉ 💬 I feel like I made a mistake by not letting you now the tank was running out. But I also feel unsafe going to the gas station late. I am scared of walking around alone at night. I would like to be able to run errands and simply leave a note when the tank is low. Do you understand where I'm coming from? * notice and declare a potential mistake as it helps alleviate immediate steam; however this should only happen if you s̲̲e̲̲e̲̲ your part in this and do not feel accused; do not reply in a servile or defensive manner (this only invites blame and abandonment), instead simply recognize that everyone is responsible to a degree; offering early transparency thus accelerates the formation of consensus * avoid referring to the past; especially: do not defend or justify (alleged) p̲̲a̲̲s̲̲t̲̲ m̲̲i̲̲s̲̲t̲̲a̲̲k̲̲e̲̲s̲̲. Instead, verbalize patterns that you consider gave them rise without blame and in present tense ("I feel like...", "It is not safe", "I am __ (scared, disappointed, hurt)", "it makes it hard for me to __ (go to the station, remember to check the car) when __ (it is late, I am short on time, I am exhausted)"). This shifts the frame from personal shortcomings to a relatable situation, inviting the other party to help, give a fresh perspective, or even contribute to a structural recalibration * the EXPLANATION part is very short ("I am scared of walking around at night") which invites the other party to inquire further or conclude for themselves and understand * "I would like to..." expresses a wish w̲̲i̲̲t̲̲h̲̲o̲̲u̲̲t̲̲ a̲̲s̲̲k̲̲i̲̲n̲̲g̲̲ f̲̲o̲̲r̲̲ a̲̲p̲̲p̲̲r̲̲o̲̲v̲̲a̲̲l̲̲ * the final question is there only to ask for understanding; this makes it clear that the party primarily requests validation https://www.magellanhealth.com/wp-content/uploads/documents/sites/7/2021/02/8f0540dd2b9878d0cf1c53227e1c3c87.pdf #relationship #spouses #kids #coworkers #bosses #communication #advice #tactics #strategy #needy #selfhelp #negotiation #rhetoric #assertiveness #selfassertion #conflict #resolution #protocol

Communicating effectively series 2/3 - Requests (#1) vs. Needs (#3) #2 𝓡𝓮𝓼𝓹𝓸𝓷𝓭𝓲𝓷𝓰 to an expressed need / confrontation / ◉ R̲̲E̲̲F̲̲L̲̲E̲̲C̲̲T̲̲ and ◉ V̲̲A̲̲L̲̲I̲̲D̲̲A̲̲T̲̲E̲̲. 💬 I understand. It can be really annoying trying to go somewhere only to realize an empty tank. That must have been really frustrating. * active listening makes sure the initiator feels understood * validation =/= agreement https://www.magellanhealth.com/wp-content/uploads/documents/sites/7/2021/02/8f0540dd2b9878d0cf1c53227e1c3c87.pdf #relationship #spouses #kids #coworkers #bosses #communication #advice #tactics #strategy #needy #selfhelp #negotiation #rhetoric #assertiveness #selfassertion #conflict #resolution #protocol

Communicating effectively series 1/3 - Requests (#1) vs. Needs (#3) #1 𝓐𝓼𝓼𝓮𝓻𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓰 a request ◉ F̲̲A̲̲C̲̲T̲̲ ◉ F̲̲E̲̲E̲̲L̲̲I̲̲N̲̲G̲̲ ◉ R̲̲E̲̲Q̲̲U̲̲E̲̲S̲̲T̲̲ ◉ 💬 When I drove to work today, I noticed that the car is nearly out of gas (FACT). I felt annoyed and I got angry (FEELING). When you use the car to run errands, I would like you to refill the tank (REQUEST). * separate recent o̲̲b̲̲s̲̲e̲̲r̲̲v̲̲a̲̲t̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲ ("empty tank") from suspected chain of events ("someone did not fill the tank up", "someone was careless", "someone had to run errands late at night", "someone decided that sharing a single car would be a 'great idea'" etc.) and refer only to the former: the most reliable observation ("fact") * stick to "I"-s̲̲t̲̲a̲̲t̲̲e̲̲m̲̲e̲̲n̲̲t̲̲s̲̲ when expressing emotions; resist t̲̲e̲̲m̲̲p̲̲t̲̲a̲̲t̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲ t̲̲o̲̲ a̲̲t̲̲t̲̲a̲̲c̲̲k̲̲ and blame ("Why have you done this to me?", "Can't you be reliable for once?") * be very clear about y̲̲o̲̲u̲̲r̲̲ e̲̲x̲̲p̲̲e̲̲c̲̲t̲̲a̲̲t̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲s̲̲; when addressing a detected unbalance or overstepping of personal boundary, do not phrase your concern as a question or suggestions, but as a friendly and self-assured demand * it helps when important expectations have been r̲̲e̲̲v̲̲e̲̲a̲̲l̲̲e̲̲d̲̲ by both parties previously, possibly discussed and written down. An established set of rules and continuous exchanges / negotiations enable c̲̲o̲̲n̲̲f̲̲r̲̲o̲̲n̲̲t̲̲a̲̲t̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲ b̲̲y̲̲ r̲̲e̲̲f̲̲e̲̲r̲̲r̲̲a̲̲l̲̲ (to the rules) and reduce initiator vulnerability * Routinely p̲̲r̲̲e̲̲s̲̲e̲̲n̲̲c̲̲e̲̲ (in-person, off screens), frequent c̲̲h̲̲e̲̲c̲̲k̲̲-̲̲i̲̲n̲̲s̲̲ ("how was your afternoon?", "would you like to go out tonight?"), and a̲̲c̲̲t̲̲i̲̲v̲̲e̲̲ l̲̲i̲̲s̲̲t̲̲e̲̲n̲̲i̲̲n̲̲g̲̲ ("right", "gotcha", "how __ (adorable, happy, strange)!", "I wonder what happened to __", "So... do you to slap this guy in the face now or what?") all contribute to a bond of u̲̲n̲̲d̲̲e̲̲r̲̲s̲̲t̲̲a̲̲n̲̲d̲̲i̲̲n̲̲g̲̲ and e̲̲m̲̲o̲̲t̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲a̲̲l̲̲ c̲̲o̲̲n̲̲n̲̲e̲̲c̲̲t̲̲i̲̲o̲̲n̲̲, increasing potential for mutual support during times of hardship, as well as fast recovery after events of disappointment https://www.magellanhealth.com/wp-content/uploads/documents/sites/7/2021/02/8f0540dd2b9878d0cf1c53227e1c3c87.pdf #relationship #spouses #kids #coworkers #bosses #communication #advice #tactics #strategy #needy #selfhelp #negotiation #rhetoric #assertiveness #selfassertion #conflict #resolution #protocol

Nostr is my hub for #news. These channels post non-stop many posts per hour. Any similar channels you guys would recommend? Looking preferably for German and European news on politics, economy - with as little tech and sports as possible, neutral reporting and to right-leaning topics. @npub16cwu...nwae @npub1hggn...wypf #asknostr #news #channels #recomendations