i presented this as a relationship dynamic, but this is much bigger than that. these are generational wounds that my father passed on to me (and probably were passed to him) that i decided to sort out instead of passing on. i'm choosing presence over duty. View quoted note →

easy game i always got the good ending <3 View quoted note →

some guys "provide" because they believe it grants them access and means they're in charge. i "provide" because i believe Her presence demands offering and it is an expression of my gratitude. same motions; totally different energy. #FLR #love #gratitude #relationships

#100pushups 1x25, 2x40 u____U

the cool thing about being a sub in an #FLR is that i can express feelings of overwhelm, struggle, and stress to my Wife without fear. and be loved and respected for it. no need to worry about saving face or holding "frame" or whatever that is. no need to hold it in and let it simmer into anger or avoidant tendencies. no need to allow it to bleed into family life and work relationships. just honest #vulnerability and #love. #relationships

lust is just an amusement park when surrendered to love