the cool thing about being a sub in an #FLR is that i can express feelings of overwhelm, struggle, and stress to my Wife without fear. and be loved and respected for it. no need to worry about saving face or holding "frame" or whatever that is. no need to hold it in and let it simmer into anger or avoidant tendencies. no need to allow it to bleed into family life and work relationships. just honest #vulnerability and #love. #relationships