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Orange Book
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Thoughts triggering thoughts. Learning on the go. Novel in progress.
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orangebook 2 months ago
People with bad taste always act like a healthy lifestyle requires so much self-discipline and effort, when healthy food is actually the tastiest (if you are already healthy), regular workouts are one of the most enjoyable moments of your day (if you are already fit), and a good sleep schedule is only natural and effortless (if you are not spending your days glued to a screen and are actually living life.) #orangebook #HealthyLifestyle #SelfDiscipline #Food
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orangebook 2 months ago
You save so much time and energy once your relationships are with confident people. You never have to worry about whether facts might accidentally offend them. You can be yourself, they can be themselves. Everyone can focus on meaningful goals instead of each other’s feelings. #orangebook #Relationships #Confidence #Authenticity
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orangebook 2 months ago
Mentally strong people are just people who refused to believe that giving up was ever an option. #orangebook #MentalStrength #Resilience #Mindset
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orangebook 2 months ago
So many people with the best intentions fail to be good parents because they never understood that education was never about telling their kids what to do, but about the efforts, the values, the ambitions they embodied in their daily lives. You won't raise an emotionally healthy, mentally strong, bold and confident kid unless you are such a person first. #orangebook #Parenting #Education #Values
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orangebook 2 months ago
People often complain about being too busy when they should actually question their own inefficiency. Most people waste so much time on conversations with no depth, entertainment with no substance, investments with no conviction (or no investment at all), and then, when life finally catches up to the quality of their decisions, they play the victim and act "surprised" by how unfair life is. Some people actually have it all: a loving family, loyal friends, a creative job, financial freedom, fitness and health, a meaningful journey, but it didn't happen overnight, and it was the product of long-term calculated risks, independent thinking rooted in self-belief, and a lot of humble daily training and preparation for the rainy days, but also for the life-changing opportunities that never seemed obvious when they came. #orangebook #TimeManagement #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement
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orangebook 2 months ago
People don't lose touch with their family and friends throughout the years because they are too busy, they just get lazy and find convenient excuses to stop caring, and they don't realize until way too late that the best things in life were precisely about those rare connections. #orangebook #Family #Friends #Connections
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orangebook 2 months ago
Smart enough to know the life you could have, not brave enough to take the risks to get there, that’s where most anger comes from. No one busy living the life they want gets mad at things that don’t matter. #orangebook #Anger #Regret #Action
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orangebook 2 months ago
Life is actually more stressful when your goals aren’t challenging enough. You are wasting your time, and you know it. Peace of mind is just the art of playing life on the right difficulty level. #orangebook #Goals #Stress #Mindset
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orangebook 2 months ago
Most “drama” naturally disappear once you hang out with people of equivalent talent, intelligence, and ambition. You will effortlessly understand each other and because you know the price to pay to reach your respective goals, you will never waste each other’s time. #orangebook #Ambition #Talent #Intelligence
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orangebook 2 months ago
So much success in life boils down to keeping yourself unemployed enough that you can stop everything you were doing with no hesitation, and take the jump when the game was obviously getting redefined: you just needed to pay attention and not blindly follow the herd. #orangebook #Entrepreneurship #Innovation #RiskTaking
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orangebook 2 months ago
In a society where technological leaps keep redefining the rules of every game, people who refuse to unlearn and relearn their methods are actually choosing to suffer very unnecessarily. #orangebook #Adaptability #Resilience #Learning
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orangebook 2 months ago
People who can't find peace within are always out there seeking conflicts with people who were just minding their own business. #orangebook #InnerPeace #Conflict #Mindfulness
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orangebook 2 months ago
Not being able to appreciate silence and unstimulated time alone is the sign that you don't have much ongoing in your mind; otherwise, you would understand that these are gifts for your creative output. #orangebook #Silence #Creativity #Mindfulness
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orangebook 2 months ago
Everybody wants quick changes nowadays. They all seek sophisticated gambles to get rich quick. They jump from one relationship to the next one like they're flipping cards. They talk fast but say not much. They travel all around the world to avoid the fact that they have no home. Nothing good comes to life without commitment and patience. "Talented people" have been dedicated to their craft for several decades. "Smart people" have simply always been curious. People with a loving family and genuine friends have simply always genuinely cared. The wealthiest life you could live in the broadest sense starts emerging once you stop looking for shortcuts, start being honest with yourself about who you truly want to be, gather the courage to pay the price, and start walking the journey without flip flopping every few years. People in their twenties or thirties who "have it all" simply had the self-awareness to start their journey as a kid, enough focus to not get distracted by the lives of others, and enough courage to not give up despite their mind giving them every possible excuse to do so. Most people never get the chance to hang out with top musicians, athletes, engineers, artists; they would otherwise realize that a lot of "talent" is about starting at age four with relentless discipline and passionate curiosity, and still being at it several decades later. #orangebook #Commitment #Patience #Discipline
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orangebook 2 months ago
Once you get in the best physical shape of your life, you realize that the cure for all your mental struggles were the self-discipline to stick to the training, diet, and lifestyle that you knew you were always supposed to maintain, as well as enough self-respect to build relationships with people who were focused on clear goals, since such people have no time to get offended or create worthless drama. #orangebook #SelfDiscipline #MentalHealth #Relationships
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orangebook 2 months ago
The best things in life are not attained directly, they are merely side effects of striving to become the best version of yourself, that’s how you gain skills that will ensure your wealth, that’s how you will marry someone who will match your energy, that’s how you will raise kids who will believe in themselves. #orangebook #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #LifeGoals
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orangebook 2 months ago
Worrying about not being a good enough parent is a self-fulfilling prophecy as anxiety gets infused in your child. Forget about parenting, strive to be the best person you can be, you will naturally be able to show your kids the right direction and inspire them to move forward. #orangebook #Parenting #Anxiety #Inspiration
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orangebook 2 months ago
You don't need to become a monk in a mountain to find peace of mind, you can challenge yourself every day with the hard goals that your unique talents can solve, and you will not only be rewarded by society, but also feel rewarded internally, with confidence, clarity, direction. #orangebook #PeaceOf #SelfImprovement #GoalSetting
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orangebook 2 months ago
Anxiety fades away as you start working on yourself with more conviction. #orangebook #SelfImprovement #AnxietyRelief #Mindfulness
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orangebook 2 months ago
People always accuse others of what they are doing themselves, you are not being a good person for the sake of others, you are doing it for the sake of your own peace of mind. #orangebook #Projection #Self-interest #PeaceOf