The older you get, the fewer people will call you out on your foolish behaviors, because everybody knows how harder and harder it becomes to change habits, and everybody who has their lives in order is too busy to deal with any unnecessary drama or your potential hard feelings.
#orangebook #GrowingUp #Accountability #PersonalGrowth
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It's actually very easy to walk in the wrong direction in life when you are living in a society where "success" is all about how much money you make, you can afford to be confidently wrong for so many decades because that society will keep validating your conventional choices.
#orangebook #Success #Society #Choices
The place where you choose to live is shaping you as a person. If you have to continually be alert of your surroundings, if you have to regularly deal with lack of common sense, if you have to learn how to handle constant cynicism, it will show in your personality, your guard will be up, and one day, you will look back and realize that you have no friend.
The opposite is true: if you mostly spend your time around thoughtful and kind people, if you can open up without getting hurt because you are surrounded by good people, if you can assume the best from others and be proven right time after time, you will progressively sharpen your own intuition when it comes to who is worth building long-term relationships with, and one day, you will look back and realize that you are surrounded by love.
#orangebook #Environment #Personality #Relationships
“A ‘brand’ originally meant a burn mark on livestock. It’s ironic that people feel awe toward that mark, long for its authority, and pay large sums to obtain it, essentially buying a modern version of a livestock brand.”
Great post as always.
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#orangebook #Branding #Marketing #Consumerism

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It's understandable why wise people tend to narrow down their circle of friends as they get older, at some point, you get tired of people who make their problems your problems, and you would rather spend your time with people who don't disturb your peace of mind, people who fill you up with positive energy, people who make you feel grateful to be alive.
#orangebook #Friendship #PersonalGrowth #PeaceOf
Most "unlucky" adults are just people who still believe in shortcuts instead of coming up with a long-term plan in decades and actually following through.
#orangebook #Shortcuts #LongTerm #Mindset
People don’t struggle to get what they want, they struggle to pay the price to become who they need to be to naturally attract what they want.
#orangebook #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #Attraction
It's only getting more and more obvious as you get older that the prerequisite for long-lasting friendships is to have your personal life in order.
If you hang out with people who fixed their insecurities, who are financially responsible, who learned how to love because they have a family and people they care about, and who have a clear purpose that pushes them to be the best version of themselves, there is usually no drama.
@ideasfromkeyron Thank you for the kind words, really appreciate! 🧡
#orangebook #Friendships #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement
As you get older, you realize that genuine friends are very rare: most people are transactional and secretly trying to take advantage of you, and they disappear the minute they realize they won't get their way; if you have friends who genuinely care, treasure them, you are lucky.
#orangebook
You don’t feel lonely when you are alone, you feel lonely when you are around the wrong people.
#orangebook
If you can't be honest with a friend without worrying about offending them, you actually already lost them.
#orangebook
Most people who think they struggle with their relationships actually struggle with their own mental health.
#orangebook
A lot of people feel lost because they've been conditioned to seek answers and purpose from the talented, the wealthy, the "successful," without realizing that everyone else was equally clueless, and as a result, they never developed the courage to explore the unique paths that would have brought them peace of mind.
#orangebook
Longevity and "anti-aging" are actually very simple, but it's also the very opposite of what people stuck in a "grind mindset" will tell you: a low-stress lifestyle, a lot of time to spend with family and friends that you love, being and feeling useful as opposed to capturing as much value as you can, a clean environment where you feel connected to nature, a healthy diet that you can unapologetically stick to instead of being forced to drink every week just because it's the norm, a neighborhood where people are still thoughtful and kind instead of constantly judgmental or obsessed with "success", time for daily walks and reading novels, time for soulful music, time to volunteer for a community you care about, time to actually live your core values instead of signaling them, time to train your body and your mind in order to finally become who you want to be and not who society wanted you to be.
#orangebook
It's actually funny to see so many old businessmen spend so much money on trying to stay young with very average results compared to the random "young" men in their sixties at your local gym who simply kept working out for several decades just because they were enjoying it.
#orangebook
The only reason a lot of people tolerate "family" or "friends" who abuse their kindness is because they have never experienced what it's like to have a deep bond with a thoughtful, kind, generous person: what they think is normal is not, and they don't realize they deserve better
#orangebook
You always feel disrespected by a lot of people when you lack self-confidence; then after you spend the many years required to develop your own talents, you realize that no one ever even thought about you. Being overreactive is a common sign that you are not who you want to be.
#orangebook
Life suddenly gets better once you understand that most of your health issues, financial issues, relationship issues, career issues, and self-esteem issues, are actually self-control and self-discipline issues.
#orangebook
A healthy lifestyle, loving relationships, financial security, and a clear purpose that makes you grow as a person, that’s all you need if you want to get rid of your anxiety.
#orangebook
A lot of people constantly feel exhausted because they spend their energy judging everyone and everything, and taking every bit of criticism personally, instead of investing that energy in themselves until they finally become who they want to be.
#orangebook