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Don’t take me too seriously unless I’m totally serious.
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Mary Yar 2 weeks ago
I’ve been fighting off the worst flu of my life. 🤧 This is the first time in a week where I actually feel myself getting better, I even got out of bed today.
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Mary Yar 2 weeks ago
Trump needs to leave us alone fr. Us Canadians are nothing to play with! #Davos2026 image
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Mary Yar 1 month ago
Raven and the first men by Bill Reid #artstr image
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Mary Yar 1 month ago
Good morning Nostr. Yesterday I got to see one of my favourite artworks in person here in Vancouver. It’s the statue Raven and the first Men by Bill Reid. Is an indigenous story of the trickster Raven convincing the first humans out of the shell and into the world. #art #artstr #vancouver #native #indigenousart image
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Mary Yar 1 month ago
Gastown Vancouver reminds me so much of Montreal
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Mary Yar 1 month ago
It’s 2026 baby! #happynewyear #nye
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Mary Yar 1 month ago
I have to catch a flight tomorrow and I still haven’t packed 😩
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Mary Yar 1 month ago
How am I both proud and embarrassed to be so chronically offline?
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Mary Yar 2 months ago
When i was really young people used to be eager to post their relationship status on fb. Now its a total shock if a girl hard launches a guy on insta. Its soft launch or no launch at all. Hiding faces, etc. I've def noticed the shift and so this article was interesting to me. Here are some things I agree with. 1. That the dating landscape is really bad. 2. Its now uncool to be the boyfriend girl. 3. Even partnered women lament men and hetrosexuality (why is everyone bi now?) 4. Girls romantize being single and no one is afraid of the old spinster with cats thing. So is having a boyfriend embarassing? No, but here's what I think happened. 1. You used to get clout for being partnered - being claimed by a man meant you were "one of the good ones" it affirmed your womanhood and brought real tangible benefits like a home, a place in society, etc. 2. The hey girly messages. I've had this happen to me before. You date a guy for like a year so you think you are safe, you post him only to have a "hey girly" message appear in your dm. "Hey girly, I just thought I should let you know your bf has been sending me snaps for 3 months, he said he wasn't in a relationship". It doesn't even have to be that extreme, just the feeling of going to a popular influencer's page and seeing your bf amongst her likes. How many times have you heard your besties say they want a guy with no social media? ALL THE TIME. I even feel that way, i would love for my next boyfriend to have no social media presence and to never be caught dead in someones dms. 3. Here's my last one, and i think some people won't like hearing this but one of the reasons girls don't want to post their bfs anymore is because they aren't their bfs. They're in a situationship. She knows there are other girls so if she were to post him she would open herself up to ridicule so she has no choice but enjoy her humiliationship in private. The fix? IDK. How do you make having a bf cool? I don't think you can.
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Mary Yar 4 months ago
It’s 1:56 am where I am and I have given up on sleep. It’s gonna be a long night.
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Mary Yar 5 months ago
Oof this is the worst breakup of my life omg 😓 #heartbroken
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Mary Yar 5 months ago
The mask by Rozzi Roomian #art #artstr image
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Mary Yar 5 months ago
Sometimes I miss my studio apartment. It was high up on the 9th floor so it had better views and it just felt so cozy. Plus it was easier to clean!
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Mary Yar 6 months ago
For all you singletons (me included) tomorrow’s Venus and Jupiter conjunction is the luckiest day of the year to find love 🥰 don’t let it go to waste! #astrology #august12 #single #dating