I'm not asking Amethyst to centralize anything. I just want the choice to only use the relays I've added myself. I understand I'll miss some posts, and I'm fine with that. I'd rather miss a few posts than pull spam from hundreds of relays I never added. The relay system is terrible in nostr. You need to think smarter and be more creative and not follow the crowd because now my amethyst is full of spam

Then use the proxy relay setting. The option has been there for two years.

ok I will try it and see how it goes

This is exactly why pubky.tech is going to overtake Nostr.

lol.