Yeah, “by design” points at the deliberate nature of the action. ie. it’s not an accident. It could be for good or bad intent, makes no difference. The example I use in my book to demonstrate this is: imagine you are sleeping and wake to find yourself handcuffed to the bed. It doesn’t matter if was a playful partner or a malicious intruder, you know with absolute certainty that that act of handcuffing your was not an accident. It’s “by design”

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Sam 3 months ago
Ok I’ll try to persuade my wife with that example 🤣🤣