I still have way more questions than answers :0) That is why I joined some sailing clubs and will join courses, sailing trips etc. It is hard to get those things clear via online forums. Nevertheless thanks a lot for the offer, who knows I have some questions at some point that I can't get landed easy and could give a try ! A lot of online stuff is just what you mention, only the nice stuff, beautiful people, boats, weather etc. One of the reason I'm interested in other channels :0)