Yeah it's like a huge internal battle for me. Even on the latest Monero Monthly podcast by @Ungovernable Misfits (RSS Feed) they had FluffyPony on and he was saying how you gotta just concede and meet people where they are and use WhatsApp or whatever if the choice is either that or not talking with them. Its difficult too then because as we're in the know of the vulnerabilities of those platforms, you constantly feel like you have to self monitor when talking to others there.