Overhearing a group of Christian women commenting on how they've struggled with holding onto offence and realizing it's up to them to fix it, or starting to compare her husband to someone else and finding herself getting recentful and deciding to stop watching that type of content. Well, I'm hearing them and I'd love to share with them how to make deals, and how to interact with men in a way that will actually work. They're clearly wanting to make things work and have good attitudes, but they're missing some useful tools. Oh, now they're talking about gratitude, and the posture of gratitude, which is great! But sometimes we can do something about the thing that's causing us to not naturally feel happy, instead of just shifting your attitude. I wrote about a lot of this in "How to Prepare Yourself for Marriage", but clearly, already married people also need to know this so I'm getting more and more inspired to write, "How to Make Marraige Easier."