So to clarify the flow is:
Create an ncryptsec with 'superpassword123';
Hash 'superpassword123';
Put both in an event;
Sign it with random throwaway keys;
Send event to *defaultrelayforsuchthings*.
Then later i get a new fresh phone;
Download amber;
Enter password;
It hashes the password;
Uses that hash to query *defaultrelayforsuchthings*;
Gets the event with the ncryptsec back;
Uses the password to decrypt the ncryptsec;
Loads in the retrieved nsec.
Done. All i needed was my 'superpassword123' and i am back up and running (and maybe specify a relay). Now i go to a zapstore-equivelent and 1-press install all the apps i was using.