i thought id simplify the ui and refer to them all as relays. you can disable the https proxy when adding a relay, see screenshot. which lnd port did you choose and what did you select in zeus? for the error that youre seeing, make sure magicdns and https is enabled in tailscale.

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Enabling HTTPS · Tailscale Docs

Configure HTTPS for devices in your Tailscale network.

adding an issue to try and check for it from the tailscale client and report it in the ui