Steps to have your own personal relay as a double outbox/inbox relay: Go to https://relay.tools Click Start a Relay Select the standard plan Log in with a NIP-07 extension Pick your subdomain name for it Hit Deploy. After paying, the screen will redirect you to the relay settings. Go to Access Control Mode and choose the current setting to "Block By Default and Then allow What I want". Then on Access Control Lists / Allow Tags Activate: Allow Events Tagged to PubKeys Then on Allowed PubKeys, add your key Now all you need to do is to add this new relay to your Public Outbox AND Public Inbox relays on Amethyst.