The best way to end something is to let it starve.
You see, conflict thrives on attention. The moment you engage, you feed it. And whatever you feed grows.
But if you simply let it be, if you withdraw your energy, it withers away. Like a fire deprived of oxygen.
The world is built on patterns, loops of cause and effect. Most people stay trapped within them, reacting endlessly, playing the same game over and over.
These loops are what I call the hamster wheels. Glitches in your code, programmed in childhood, still running you decades later.
But here's the secret: the game is rigged and you don't have to play.
Step back - into what I call admin mode - and observe the pattern without feeding it.
And the game collapses.
Step away, and new pathways unfold.
Where attention goes, energy flows.
So if you wish to move forward? Watch for the wheels. Do not return negativity.
Do not wrestle with what seeks to pull you in.
Instead, remove yourself entirely. Just witness it. Break the cycle.
This is where real power lies - not in resistance, but in observation.
You are not bound to childhood loops. You can debug them.
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