Women's purpose is reproduction, which is mostly a natural process. Women can "surrender to God" and leave in peace, fully achieving their biological goals. Furthermore, the happiest women did exactly that. For men life is the opposite. If, as a man, you just surrender to God, your life will become hell very quickly. Men need to build their worlds and that requires insane amounts of effort and bravery. This realization can make you the most fulfilled person in the world, or the most miserable. No mistakes are allowed here.