I think the issue for me is in the fact that people don't seem to realize that Nostr is a completely wide open relay-based information sharing system yelling into a somewhat immutable set of distributed databases. It is literally almost impossible to use it in a way in which your information is not being broadcast into the databases of people who want to monetize that information by tracking you. It's like worrying about increasing the flow of water to the Niagara Falls by adding a garden hose to it.