try adding wss://relay.mleku.dev/ just for funsies i don't remember when it started happening, lots of outbox clients out there now, but it gets pretty busy on my relay too.

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I had your other one sometime back, that you whitelisted me on, but then I think you removed me so I dropped it. I'll try this one. Right now though, it appears to be a combination of kind 1111 issues, and likely hidden relay mismatch stuff (prob divines fault). That's my intuition. Fairly sure about the 1111 stuff being part of problem, as I have examples I shared with someone that sorta confirmed it
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