Please hang around! Before BIP-110, I think we actually had something like consensus in the community that Core was on a bad path. Since then the partisanship has gotten so strong that it's hard to find that common ground, but it's definitely there, as are many of the shared values. The failure of 110 does not mean that everyone loves Core (or Saylor, or paper bitcoin, or spam). I think it just means that 110 was not the solution.