try the wisp client out from zapstore, it shatters this paradigm

Among 20+ microblogging clients there are only 2 that don't follow the promote centralized paradigms, soon to be 1, eventually 0. So I don't get why you are spreading so much bullshit, it would be much more helpful and productive if you either shut up entirely or started speaking more concretely and directly about the problems you're seeing and the solutions you have in mind.

Which relays would you recommend? I'm new here, so just discovering how everything works