Different clients also handle feeds differently so you canโ€™t be sure how things will look on someone elseโ€™s feed. For the longest time, quoted notes on Amethyst showed up as replies on Damus. It was weird.

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Many times I donโ€™t get notified if someone quotes a post, and I only know they quoted it because I happen to see it while scrolling in my feed. If someone instead replies then I always see it. Quote vs. Reply is not about one being right and one being wrong, itโ€™s about the intent of the social interaction. If you want attention for yourself, then a quote is better. If you want a conversation with the OP, then a reply is better.
We still donโ€™t have a MAIN app we use, there are many different clients that all have elements I enjoy. So I agree, no clear cut etiquette.
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