i noticed normies always have these meaningless conversations about the weather or who won the game on Sunday etc. and when talking to women these conversations get even more mindless - basically just expressing excitement with noises like "wow" or maybe making comments on the food like "this is so good" but not actually saying anything. i have to accept now it's not just because these people have absolutely nothing to say - but also because anything you say can and will be used against you. i tried my best not to get philosophical or political but didn't do good enough job.