What "just math" advice do you have for someone who does not have the degrees of freedom necessary _today_ in order to jockey themselves into that position? Because I'm pretty sure they'll have the same "it's just math" response for you: "If I spent the time and resources needed to move myself into that position, I'd starve before I got there. it's just math"

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By the way, what’s you’re suggestion? Both parents work, don’t spend but 1-2 hours a day with your kids (where all you’re doing is moving them along to get to the next day, and just continue living that life for decades and not TRY to make a better life? Just accept the situation and allow hopelessness to drive your families future?