You shouldn’t have to think about it

Are you on primal or amethyst? You have way too many inbox/outbox relays. If you are on Primal go to

Nostr Profile Manager

log in, click relays and pick 3 that you are SURE to have all of your posts and mark them as WRITE. Then pick 3 (it can be the same) that ANYONE can write into (no paid relays) and select READ.

I dont understand... Why not?

I use multiple clients but mostly nostrudel, primal and amethyst.