I grew up in an area where somehow all lesbians were fake. I'm still not sure, but people like you have convinced me enough to at least believe it's none of my business. Thanks for posting 🤙

In my teen years I thought I'd get along well with lesbians as a guy too obsessed with my first girlfriend to reciprocate love with anyone new, but I came off as creepy to them for wanting female friends in general, and all of them ended up having sex with guys anyway, so it really messed with my head. At the time I started thinking lesbians must be fake, but looking back, maybe the area where I lived was just so shitty it was filtering out any real ones. Like, maybe social pressure kept turning all my age group's "gold stars" into "traumatized" and I was collateral damage too. I apologize for angry internet comments of mine in the past, and the fact that today you have to explain how you're even real, and the fact that some people aren't as lucky as you with being smart enough to explain themselves. I endeavor to make nostr a place where you can find the women (and in my case men) you seem eager to offer knowledge, and they can find you when they need it. I hope soon it's time for the world to reveal it welcomes you more than you'd ever dare get your hopes up about, and then all you need is to focus on that part of yourself that's driven to make others feel accepted. 📈

Such deep partnerships are good to hear about. And thank you for helping inform me/people like me. The part about you being someone whose knowledge nostr should spread still stands 💯