This. Fixed relay list clients are simpler and work well on a small network but don’t scale as Nostr expands and you have find notes on relays you’ve never heard of.

Have the relay list specs in Nostr ossified? Where does one look to find the “home” relay and/or a relay list for a gossip implementation? I remember it seemed to be under debate a few months ago

agree, we are missing gossip in plebstr a lot too. Have it as one the things that we have to do