GM!

What is your recommendation for self-hosted video calls? Do you offer something out of the box or easy to setup? Many people are looking for alternatives to video calls by surveillance providers.

Self hosted Jitsi is a good option. We don't have a out of the box setup but maybe it is some for our list

If that's your recommendation, I would love to see it work over Tor. Unreasonable or possible?

super easy to set-up yourself if you have a domain