Most of these replies focus on the "children" part of your post. I think the "family" end can provide ample meaning in life as well. My wife and I do not have children. That was a choice we made for many solid reasons, and I would not change it. However, I am surrounded by friends/ coworkers/ / siblings that have children and I absolutely see how their lives have more meaning... at times I envy that.
However, although we have no children, we have taken care of my wife's father at the end of his life, and that was a deeply meaningful experience. We plan on moving halfway across the US in a couple years to do the same for her mother, then again for my parents (all in different states). We can only do this because we don't have children, but we seek to serve the elderly in our family. It brings meaning to my life. Sure, different than children, but meaning non the less.
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Not arguing, you're allowed to not have children and be happy about it, but want to point out you totally can move across the country and take care of family when you have children. I literally did it this year, took my oldest son and drove cross county to take care of my father who got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Then a week later my wife and other children came.
What were the solid reasons to not have children?