No, and no again.

Cope harder. Bitcoin is and has always been superior money. If you only ever use something to spend then it isnt money. If you only ever want something for privacy it isn't money, if you only ever pay in the shadows hiding from the state you aren't changing shit. I prefer my money censorship resistant vs private. If the state can't stop it it doesn't matter how public it is.

They say ARRR privacy is better than Monero.