I understand, i feel you...but.
Its not a deep protocol phenomena, and that is generally where my frustration lies irt the subject. It should be a surface level insight. Now i don't blame you, because i have not found the 'words' for it either to convey it in a simple 1 to 3 sentences.
We will see, hopefully next year we have those words so it can be incorperated in the 2026 advent calander ;).