great question... swinging to the opposite position can be part of the game and when it happens it will teach you that learning lesson. That all reactions within the mind / hamster wheel will create an opposite reaction. Ive had two clients recently who both said "im done with helping others" Im going to look after myself... they will try and maybe succeed for a bit but they will get the let down like a boomerang. This needs to be experienced and seen as part of "trying" to escape the mind. bit like groundhog day.
