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Kode 5 months ago
Getting married was the best thing I've ever done. Highlight of my life and the biggest blessing of God. Highly recommend if you know ANYTHING about Risk-Reward asymmetry. The key: the relationship COMMITS you to Listen, Listen, Listen and keep practicing Listening and that unlocks all other parts of your life.

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Hope she is a good women that won’t leave you high and dry… women are fickle… just sayin. Better have a back up stash somewhere
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Kode 5 months ago
Definitely a two way street, and I’m all in lol - the worst possible rug, and love can’t thrive in fear
True.. be careful is all I’m saying. I’ve seen shit go sideways more than once for people
I don't need a piece of paper from the government to know I love someone. The only reason I'd even consider marriage is to help a plutonic friend get citizenship.
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Kode 5 months ago
Yes, listening as a practice involves listening to yourself, I’m glad you all are happy and hopefully better for it 🙌