If you don't believe me or don't get it, I don't have time to try to convince you, sorry.

These are the fees on the Lightning Network when you send to a less often used wallet, in this case Xapo. The black screenshot is Phoenix wallet, the grey one is Bitcoin Jungle. Bitcoin Jungle fees are in Costa Rican Colones, its about 50 USD cents. Maybe @Bitcoin Jungle or @Phoenix Wallet can say something about it?