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She stays at home and takes her child to day care??? 😂 she needs her quality time scrolling her phone it must be 😂

Dude it's so retarded, and not even like 2 days a week... Full time 5 days a week for 7 hours. Why are women like this 😵

Women have decided to neglect their children to chase the euphoria on their telephones and side ‘businesses’ . It’s mad

It's disgusting and I'm happy my grandmother isn't around to see this 😮‍💨

Mine as well. 🫂 💜

Why don't you mind your business instead of badmouthing your "friend" online. Very uncool

I feel for that little puffy cake. Inconsequential consolation, karma is a thing.

Very much minding our own business, the world our children will live in will be made also by other people's children.

So instead of being clingy to his mother, he'll learn to be clingy to the state. Great choice by mom.

Exactly cuz that's what we need more of... People that grow up thinking the "state" should take care of them 🫠😵😑

Cry harder

I guess you fell for the socialising scam too. Good to know.

Wir schaffen das 🤡

An alternate thought — maybe she just wants a break from her child to take care of herself, like take a shower? The socialisation thing is a lie, of course, but could be one she tells herself to assuage her mum guilt? If she’s taken him to a good daycare and didn’t have other options eg. family close by, consider that she’s just trying to help herself find a village, even if it’s paid for. Throughout human history, motherhood was never supposed to be “done” alone; it’s a myth in the Western world today that mums have to do it in isolation, but many of us live in such individualised silos these days that services like these are the only option. If I’ve learned one thing from matrescence, it’s “put your own oxygen mask on first”.

Family is a few streets away, has more than basics covered for life, doesn't have to work, has a circle of friends and moms already, just wants her kiddo not to be clingy. But I hear what you're saying

Also an alternative thought, maybe I am upset cuz my community of moms and kids my son can play with is shrinking and now we can only get together on Saturday and Sunday like with every other mom I know. But who cares, not like I need to shower or feel like I'm isolated 🤝

Homeschool co-op is the answer. Kids get some exposure to other kids, mom gets a break and you’re mixing with parents that “care” Search meetup, facebook, nextdoor, etc Also: Homeschool-life.com Outschool.com Bewildandfree.org 🧡👊🏻🍻

Just had our first 7 months ago. My wife, he, and I flew to spend time with family for a couple of weeks and I do have to say that he really has flourished with all of his cousins and other family around. He is much more vocal, seems to be more mobile, eating a bit better, etc. I think he was getting bored or having limited stimulus staying at home with my wife and I and occasional grandparent visits. We are thinking of some daycare once we get back home to keep the the action and engagement up until he gets a sibling.