Once I replied I could see where the note went exactly. However, the reply showed up on Amethyst but I had to reload (stop and start) relay tools to see it. Maybe a bug?

replies have the selector, where you can reply to just the one relay, or also to the inboxes of any mentions. I just realized I need to make it *also send to your own outbox relays tho, that's what it's supposed to do. Similar to jumble replies was the idea.