it's all about context. Let me elaborate. When I was with my abusive ex, he used crying as a means to lure me back in. He used his tears to manipulate a part of me who was in-love with him. When he realised that I was that close of leaving him for good, tears was his only option. But empty promises whilst begging me to stay was the straw that broke the camel. I did not blame him for crying. Probably, he meant it or probably not. What matters whether his actions and words are in sync, I'd always go by with the behaviour. It is crucial to understand what the tears are for (crocodile tears or not) and to know yourself deep down (your boundaries). Are you being lured into submission (toxic violent relationship), use your emotions to manipulate/guilt trip you or is the person truly shows heartfelt remorse? There are tell tell signs to spot them but it is always subjective depending on the circumstance and the person involve. Hope that helps. ☺️👌