Faith, Strength, and a Mother's Promise
In 2016, my life changed overnight. My partner left me for another woman when our daughter was only three years old. I had just resigned from my job so I could take better care of her, and when he left, he didn't leave us a single peso.
My daughter was still drinking milk and wearing diapers. We were renting a small home, and I had no income to pay for food, rent, milk, diapers, and utility bills. Christmas was approaching, but instead of feeling the excitement of the season, I was overwhelmed with fear and uncertainty. Finding a job was difficult because most companies were waiting until January to hire.
To survive, I sold our belongings and appliances just to put food on the table and buy milk for my daughter. Eventually, even that money was gone. There came a point when I didn't even have 20 pesos in my pocket. It was the lowest point of my life.
I have always been the kind of person who doesn't like asking for help, even from my own siblings. But for my daughter's sake, I swallowed my pride. Sometimes I received help, but there were also times when I was given nothing but false hope. During those difficult months, God sent blessings through kind neighbors and friends who shared meals with us when they knew we had nothing. Their kindness reminded me that even in our darkest moments, God never abandons His children.
When January finally came, I was hired. I entrusted my daughter to a trusted neighbor while I worked, carrying both the guilt of leaving her and the determination to build a better future for us. Every day since then, I have worked not for myself, but for my daughter.
She is now turning 13 years old. She has grown into a talented, responsible, and consistent honor student. Watching her succeed reminds me that every sacrifice, every tear, and every sleepless night was worth it.
In 2022, I decided to invest in myself. While working full-time in the construction industry and raising my daughter alone, I enrolled in an Education unit program because I dreamed of becoming a teacher. By God's grace, I finished with flying colors. I then reviewed for the Licensure Examination for Professional Teachers while continuing to work and care for my daughter. There were many days when I wondered where my strength came from. The answer has always been the same—it came from God.
I took the board examination, and by His grace, I passed on my very first attempt. Today, I proudly hold my teaching license. I also qualified for the Department of Education's Registry of Qualified Applicants. Although I know that obtaining a permanent government teaching position is not easy, I continue to trust God's perfect timing. If it is His will, the right opportunity will come. If not, I am open to teaching in a college or university after completing my master's degree.
My journey has never been easy. I still work full-time because the income is not always enough. But I have learned that our circumstances do not define our future. With faith, perseverance, and a heart that refuses to give up, we can continue moving forward one step at a time.
To every solo parent reading this, whether you are a mother or a father, I want you to know that you are not alone. There will be days when you feel exhausted, discouraged, and uncertain. But never stop believing in yourself. Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep praying. Every sacrifice you make today is planting seeds for a brighter tomorrow.
I am not sharing my story because I have reached the finish line. I am sharing it because I am still running the race—with faith in God, hope in my heart, and my daughter as my greatest inspiration.
Being a solo parent is not the story I planned for my life. But it became the story that taught me the true meaning of unconditional love, resilience, and unwavering faith. And for that, I will always be grateful.
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IloveYou momshiee grabe damang dama ko tong post mo 😭🥹. Congrats sau kinakaya at kaya mo Sana kayanin ko Rin ❤️anyway thanku for sharing your story to us. ..
Thank you, this is not only for the contest and support sa community, this is also for solo parents talaga, na ma share ko ang story of my life...eyyyy 😅
Aun nga din ung purpose ko dito kaya nag gawa ako HND ko nmn akalain na . Mapopondohan ni @Prime Architect
(Thankyou)
Thankfull na din IBA din kc talaga Pag ung na share .mo ung storie mo db parang nakakagaan ng feeling tapos nakaka inspire sa IBA
Waaaahhh😭 Glory to god because you overcame all the challenges. I am happy to read that you have overcome the toughest challenge you've ever faced in your life. So, even though I am not a solo parent, I salute solo parents for the strength they possess to face all challenges on their own.
Sending hugs mamiiii, loveyouu😘😘
wow Salute to you miss Yen🫡 such an inspiring story 🤗
Nakakaiyak naman mii,🥹iba talaga kumilos si Lord,iniwan ka man ng ex partner mo,pero Hinding Hindi ka iiwanan ni Lord..Salute po Sayo mii,kung ako nga po Hindi solo parent nahihirapan,ano pa kaya kayo mga solo parent..pero sa kabila ng lahat nagpakatatag ka pa rin at nagpatuloy para sa anak mo..more blessings to you mii
Mahigpit na yakap po 🥺 SALUDO po ako sa lahat ng mga solo parent .. God is always with , with us... TATAGAN lang lagi mamshie 💕❤️
Iba talaga magmahal ang nanay! Saludo ako sayo 🫡💞
I want to let you know that we may not have known you personally but for every struggles and lows of you and your daughter's life, you have conquered it all, alone and with such a valiant heart, you remind us of how amazing God truly is. 🥰
We are so proud of you, ka-Mommy! ✨💓💪
Ako ang naiyak ...salamat ...
Mahigpit na yakap po