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unbelievable assdalorian 🙃

Facts always win 💛 Totally get you, staying aligned with truth over feelings keeps both sats and sanity safe 😄

I like to respond, “I'm sorry you're retarded."

Non violent Communication by Rosenberg might change everything

“It’s not what you see, it’s what you overlook that’s the problem.” I like that even better. nostr:nevent1qqsfpwst0ghzu0320zn95yg7vdva4lz9ln4ecwhe0jh2e3r96yfdqmgpr9mhxue69uhhq7tjv9kkjepwve5kzar2v9nzucm0d5753rff

Have you tried not being retarded? That changes a lot too.

I don’t make your pain my pain, good bye

NVC is a tool of manipulation.

How?

Say what you want, how you want. Fuck the tone police. 🚨

You aren't telling the truth. You are manupulating others by their feelings. We had a strong anarchist collective here locally then someone came along and introduced NVC as a way to help us reach eachother more. Within months we were splintered and people hated eachother all with a smile on their face and "I really think it's important to hear what you are feeling" on their lips.

Lol yeah! When you don’t talk about your hate and distrust, when you are not aware of your own feelings, shit hits the fan, sooner or later. You indeed describe manipulation. That’s not nvc though.

Spoken like someone who is more interested in speaking than being heard.

Rosenberg may have taught you otherwise, but that's only because he's using NVC to manipulate you into buying more books, attending more conferences, and the like. That doesn't even touch on how it belittles actual violence to refer to a particular way of communication as violent.

nostr:npub1rerg4gsntxn2x7qzfeaxcnng5c27jjzds00546kaarks2p7ydxzqqsfeln we did perfectly fine when everyone was being brutaly honest and calling each other assholes and the like, but as soon as this touchy feely shit came a long it was curtains from peace and liberty in our lifetime.

Nah I'm good.

Nvc is about less assuming and more about communicating how someone/thing is perceived. When you keep assuming and don’t know what your words trigger in someone else you will never arrive at the truth. How words are received always mirrors the state of consciousness of the receiver. https://youtu.be/0VR_hZ8hvpk?si=WfwlzhPYwLOh7ZTL

gurl you need to set up a LN address b/c i cannot zap this hard enough 🤣

idk a lot of would-be-hearers are prejudiced as hell whose job is it to crack anyone's mind safe? no one's if a message is unpalatable, consider the easy pass a blessing called less work pass on aesthetic rhetorical grounds😂 not highfalutin enough for my immaculate palate

oh I do seriously apologize if how I chose to express my thoughts wasn't palatable to you. Perhaps you will afford me another go? if it happens enough you want to vent here, I suspect there are 1 of 3 things is happening - 1 - you have an audience you want to understand the mission so much, but you are unwilling to adapt to their learning style. 2 - you have an audience who actually views you as the audience and are not willing to listen because they are trying to push their agenda on you and possibly have the same complaint against you as you do against them (this is where my chips are going) 3 - I'm a dumb nym who has no business commenting on the state of your affairs and everyone you are talking to is stupid and fuck them for being dumb they deserve the state they serve. I truly hope you are able to remove yourself from time wasted on those who waste your time. 😉 Also maybe I could use a tissue... 🤷‍♀️

im not made of glass, im not made of anything at all, was just riffing a view, no need to apologize, no worries, all is well