Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious. It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough. If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.

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npub17fnz...5ksh 11 months ago
Whenever I'm F2F with anyone I'm close & friendly with, I bring this up! Different vocabulary & approach for different folks, but the "let's do a quick face to face establishment of trust" is actually not **that** hard of a sell in 2025. We are making progress! 🔑💪
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Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious. It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough. If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.
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The Amish still use PGP. I wonder how Derek Ross is going on with their on-boarding to nostr.
Juraj's avatar Juraj
Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious. It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough. If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.
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Juraj's avatar Juraj
Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious. It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough. If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.
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