Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious.
It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough.
If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.
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I may have to wait for another epoch then…
NIP69!!
Whenever I'm F2F with anyone I'm close & friendly with, I bring this up!
Different vocabulary & approach for different folks, but the "let's do a quick face to face establishment of trust" is actually not **that** hard of a sell in 2025. We are making progress! 🔑💪
Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious.
It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough.
If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.
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“I wanna zap you” instead of
“I wanna hold your hand”
The Amish still use PGP. I wonder how Derek Ross is going on with their on-boarding to nostr.
Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious.
It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough.
If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.
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If she tries to give you her snap she is too young. Leave now
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The Technologists Guide to Dating Men 😂
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Asking a girl for phone number is obsolete. You need to ask her for her public key. That's how she knows you are serious.
It can be signal qr code with verification, simplex invite code, but if you are more traditional, a PGP key is enough.
If she does not know what you are talking about or offers telegram or Instagram, keep looking for a better girl.
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We note each other everyday so I would say it's getting pretty serious

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true
I'm married 😉
That I don't know what is 😉
But I am not getting any pubkeys no more ;)

Was talking about myself 😂
of course he will give it to her
If you don’t want a girlfriend, follow this advice
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Too soon 😂