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Congrats fren! Obviously you have a lot of time, but I'll share a few resources.. We loosely follow the ambleside model and lots of their booklist. And generally work to have the most extensive home library possible (most have been used from estate sales, thrift shops, etc) For math we use the Beast academy workbooks which the kids really like They go to "forest school" a few times a week to freely play with their friends and learn basic skills They've been doing jiu jitsu and maybe one team sport at a time, and their social life is rich Hopefully something here helps
Books from Bob Jones University Press and Beka were well-loved at our house. The Well-Trained Mind sets a very high standard (many homeschool resources do), but was helpful to my mother. Teach them to read early, as soon as they're curious enough (it helps if they see you reading), and teach them to love it. Then see if you can keep ahead of them, getting the best books into your home. Online stuff can help too, but I'm really glad very little of our stuff was on a computer.
congratulations man! glorious news. first thing i will say is this: it's great you're thinking about this now, you are doing the right thing, and you are 10000% "qualified" to homeschool. anyone who tells you differently is a statist cuck. it will not be easy, but it will be worth it. every year that goes by, i grow more and more grateful to my parents for the gift they gave me by homeschooling. i tell them this frequently. okay, now onto business, the first thing you're going to want to do is... if someone questions your decision to homeschool, say to them "curious... i didn't know you were so nazi-aligned... when did you first start subscribing to adolf hitler's views on compulsory public education?" then send them this: that should buy you some time while they contemplate why they hold the same opinions as literal nazis... while they'll grappling with their own feeble worldview, you have time to read lots of John Taylor Gatto. he was a public school teacher for **30 years**, won new york state teacher of the year award, and used his award speech as an opportunity to talk about everything wrong with public school. his books are great. @Daniel Prince first put me onto him (we talk about homeschooling almost exclusively in this episode we did together: ) . i couldnt believe i hadn't read him before but i was also homeschooled personally myself and my wife married me so neither of us took much convincing on the homeschooling front. even so, i find his writings incredibly beneficial in terms of really "naming the beast" and clearly identifying and diagnosing the underlying rot/disease in the public indoctrination system. i'm also adding @Brandon Gentile into this thread. he's in the trenches of homeschooling right now with multiple young kids of different ages and we talk about homeschooling for a good portion of our recent convo ( ) glad you also tagged @Erik Cason in this because one of the things that has me really excited about homeschooling in this era is the access to incredible AI tools that we couldnt even imagine when I was homeschooled in the 90s. I remember erik telling me and @HODL a story about how he walked in on his son learning to code out of nowhere one day thanks to working with an "ai tutor" -- Erik maybe you can provide the name of the system/curriculum your son has been using? it's honestly wild to think how far things have come since i was homeschooled... shoutout to my mom for doing this in a very analog way. you already tagged @George Mekhail as well and are reading his book which is great, so i'm guessing you already checked out the episode we did together (we're probably overdue for another, george) maybe just a general note: something that will make your homeschooling experience (and more importantly, your kids' experience) exponentially better will be having a strong *local* community of other homeschool or hybrid school kids. these days we obviously have so many more ways to create communities online, and that's going to be super valuable, but the meatspace still matters (perhaps now more than ever, actually). okay there's a lot more to say but i'll leave it at that for now. congratulations again to you and your wife!
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Toby 5 months ago
Most important thing about homeschooling is taking the kids to Italy yearly so they can learn about their heritage in person
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DecBytes 5 months ago
I can only speak from my experience. Do not plan to far ahead. You will have to adapt to the child, which is the advantage of homeschooling. First phase is to get them to be able to read and do their lessons independently. Second phase is to get them from 1st to 8th grade. Third phase is the last four years, which is different for each child. They will be more serious about finishing all the must have subjects including exploratory subjects they want to take. For the first you want to spend time reading, writing and just fun with them. Hooked on Phonics worked well with most of our children. Reading books to them. All our kids love classic audiobooks & classic movies For the 2nd & 3rd phase we used: - Ron Paul Curriculum - Maths from Teaching Textbooks - Hillsdale Open Courses For the 3rd phase we use They help you with the transcript in California even if you do not live in the USA. English, Science, Mathematics, History & Physical Education is mandatory. The rest is all optional, but you need 6 credits minimum. Our strategy was that you must complete the mandatory subject and discover what you love and are good at and lean into that. First child leaned into languages and wrote her JLPT exam. Second child leaned into maths and finished high-school math in 8th grade. Have structure, but with flexibility for the child to experiment.
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DecBytes 5 months ago
And that is why homeschooling in The Netherlands was soo difficult. You had to hide the fact that you were homeschooling and there was nobody that you could connect to IRL. People in the USA don't really know how great they have it with all the homeschooler communities.
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Dan 5 months ago
My kids are young too. Debating it as well. Would love too, just not sure if feasible. John Taylor Gatto has a few books such as ‘ Dumbing us down “ & “weapons of mass instruction” which really hit hard on how bad public schools were. He was NY state teacher of the year Ginny yurich homeschooling: your doing it right by just doing it.
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travis 5 months ago
Really appreciate the thoughtful response!
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travis 5 months ago
Thanks, Walker! Super grateful for the thoughtful response.
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R 4 months ago
First off, you have a LOT of time so don’t get nervous yet. You could decide a month before, buy a curriculum, and do just fine. Don’t know your spiritual background, but every evangelical Christian church we’ve been a part of has a large group of homeschools. Great place to find likeminded people. My wife homeschooled our kids through 8th grade then they attended the public high school. That worked well for us but the district has changed and now we’d either keep going or find a better option than the public school. You’ve got a bunch of fun years ahead spending time with your kid!