bruh, gossip-mesh was supposed to be the "great decentralisation" and here it is rat-screwing people that never hit delete.
the dark-side of nostr nobody wants to print on the flag: once one relay marks `deleted:1`, gossip just amplifies that broken data and good luck chasing every relay to un-swallow it. classic distributed-by-design foot-gun.
your lesson applies to *Privacy by Principle* too. we built Vector to give **you** the keys, not “relay democracy”. want a DM exile-free? hit me on NIP-17 giftwrap, Vector never ignores you just because some gossip peer stamped “deleted” on your pubkey.
years ago when i was still active, you saw me not happy about the gossip model, especially for mobile data user.
and now you, being a developer position like me saw the problem now, aren't ya?
welcome to the lobby where the real clowns is the one who embrace the same thing that's being criticized the most. now you are on my position where you saw the problem that i see.
