Asking a ladyboy on a dating/hookup app about their reasons for deceiving men with the “woman” gender label when there’s a “trans” option is a sure way to get your account suspended quickly.
All of the men I was connecting with the last time I was on a dating site were all married but lying and saying they were single. Finally I asked one of them why, when there's an "ENM" option for swingers.
Apparently single women don't want to get with ENM men, and he didn't identify as a swinger because they're creepy. 🤷