I don't want to linger too much on horrible events, but the Charlie Kirk assassination has rattled me in a very unexpected way. So much, that I'm still working through it.
It's no secret that humans are capable of evil. We constantly see it online. We've become desensitized to it.
This feels very different, and it's not even the horrible murder itself. Throughout history, non-violent people have been executed for less. Awful, but not unexpected.
What's new is seeing friends, or maybe even family, embrace the evil. Be it with gloating, laughing, indifference, etc. We probably all know someone who has reacted in a very startling way to this murder.
That's hitting hard these past few days.
Politics are irrelevant here. You should be comfortable existing alongside peaceful people who think differently.
What I don't want is to be around people who find pleasure or satisfaction in acts of pure evil.
I'm questioning why I allowed these people to be a part of my life, or how I didn't notice signs earlier. What could I have done better to possibly prevent this?
We're not used to this.
I think we're still processing what this means going forward. Who we allow into our lives, and around our children.
If the overwhelming majority of humans reacted to this tragedy with disgust and empathy, we wouldn't be here.
Unfortunately the evil within some people is worse than realized.
And that's terrifying.
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100% 🫡
I have been grappling with the exact same issue.
Perhaps we should rise above it, or perhaps we should call them out. We all know that calling them out won’t help, though. I really don’t know how to deal with it.
I have coworkers, nurses & doctors. Who laughed and celebrated. (Unrelated to the assassination) I’ve been told at work that my opinion doesn’t matter because I’m a straight white male… I bet you can guess what state I work in.
This is what being a Jesuit and Catholic sympathizer will do to you.
The Pope wanted Kirk dead because Kirk was potentially getting out of the false dichotomy of Christianity v Judaism.
Those who rebel against God are not peaceful at their core. They steal His glory, debase money, debase human life, and have no problem using force.
this is the exact same experience i went through as well. thank you for putting it down in words
Any opinion on whether or not you think Israel was involved? The more of the response I see, from Netanyahu to the Left/right, the more convinced I am it was them
Glad I’ve already winnowed my sphere from Covid. People are crazy.
Might be helpful to reframe it as a silver lining. People are showing their true colors, and knowing that moving forward will spare you investing further in those relationships.
Similar deal with the pandamic, we culled quite a few people that lost their minds. No regrets
i had a friend say, "i'm sure not loosing any sleep over it" and a couple other shitty comments, and this person is a social worker who takes care of elderly folks. wtf. most times it better to say nothing at all, but I am glad i got to see her true colors.
The greater horror isn’t just the act of murder, but the souls revealed when people laugh at it. Proof that evil isn’t just “out there,” it lives in men’s hearts.
fortunately there is no similar case around me
but, you are absolutely right
we are not used to this
never stop looking for the smallest common nominator instead
if netanyahu will mourn you maybe you deserve slower death
Grief is always tough. And by reading your note then it means his death has made a positive impact on you and that is all that matters. Death is a lesson to those who are left behind. We are left by questions of how we lead our life as we witnessed the veil thinning. Leaving us with 'introspection'. Take care out there. 🫂
Incredibly fair response, this has been very unsettling for so many reasons, to include those you accurately pointed out. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I appreciated reading them, well expressed.
its the best filter going right now between good and evil. anyone celebrating his death is obviously evil... adjust accordingly who you associate with
My thoughts go out to you my friend. It’s a dark place to be in when you can’t understand how people can be indifferent to the obvious evil that you see. You question if you are the crazy one or is it them? It’s them. I had the exact same reaction when I saw the evil that was happening in Palestine. It doesn’t really get better but you become a bit harder and learn to cope.
Wake up, Netanyahu is very likely lying and narrative spinning to deflect from his involvement. See more: https://youtube.com/shorts/ZnDdGaUc010