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those are the worst u can choose for DM relays. nip17 sends with randomized pubkeys 2 events per message. these relays throttle and reject more than half of these.. you are only allowed 6-10 events per minute on damus for example, when it isn't 503 unavailable that is.
you dont have to, you could pick almost any other relays, you just happen to have the two that will for sure not work.. would you like an invite to spatia-arcana.com?
they do it to everyone. not enough VC money or lack of concern about user experience triggering random OK,blocked: rate limit messages.. one or the other or both or something darker. considering that the total cost of running something that could serve all of nostr is under $100/month it's pretty feeble
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