If you intentionally go out looking for problems and drama, you’ll surely find them. If you instead focus on constructive stuff, then some problems and drama will still find you because life is life, but usually way less.

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I regularly invite drama out of my life. I have way less now. Like you eluded, shit happens, but it’s no longer a flow. Plus, like the hobos of old marked inhospitable houses in hobo code, it seems the drama sources communicate that their time is wasted on you and they just move to other, more receptive, people.
You can’t avoid having problems but you can get better ones. I call these “Quality Problems”.
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frphank 1 year ago
Bring on the drama. I'm bored.
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Rand 1 year ago
gr8 grand "if 1 chooses 2 fight aholes, they will fight a lifetime" t-y heritage!
Interesting. What's your viewpoint on ignoring the trolls vs engaging them
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Shyguy 1 year ago
“If you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look for the dark that is all you will ever see”