Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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That's why we're on #nostr 💜
I agree, instagram made women more materialist and hypergamics like never before
Genio
Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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👏👏
Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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Amar nostr y las relaciones
Bien dicho
Exactly.
Ownership is the real protocol.
Nostr finally gets that right 👏
🎯 why you should be #nostronly
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Absolutely!
Nostr is all you need.
Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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ept it's true
Nostr & privacy!
Right
Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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Thanks for the sats ⚡
#Aqstr
Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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Thank you
Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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Thanks for this opinion
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Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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I think so too 🤝
Relationships are the true basis of community.
And community is the true basis of civilisation.
Platforms turned relationships into proprietary assets:
your followers belong to the platform
your DMs belong to the platform
your social graph belongs to the platform
If the platform dies or bans you, your relationships vanish.
This is not a communication system.
It is a hostage system.
Nostr breaks the hostage model.
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Well, everybody has an opinion 🤝
Thanks
now we just need to grow the community.
any good ideas on how to do that?
Start by DE emphasising zaps. They are important for sure, but they should be incidental, not central.
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If we enable creators to make more money than they do on platforms, then they will come to nostr, bring their audience and talk about their better experience.


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Digital Sovereignty
8,000 sats - The book that fixes the internet ⚡
“Nostr breaks the hostage model”
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in my experience, sure, anecdotal,
anyone you meet on any platform will cross platforms with you
anyone ive ever met ive given a shit about
and anyone who has ever given a shit about me
pretty damn quickly if on twitter x shares signal or ig or cell for facetime
yea had a couple who crossed to clubhouse at my request
on fb just msgs cell number or ig or email
on ig moves to signal or email
on clubhouse to ig (by design by clubhouse)
etc
e v e r y o n e
if they dont or wont
1. they dont give a flying fuck
2. you are not a person to them. not one worth keeping. they are happy to lose you. it is a video game to them.
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Partially true but I understand some things may not make sense depending on whatever … basically whatever
Who knows anything. Anyway.
It’s who OWNS IT that enslaved U.S.
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not sure you‘re right on this. people follow people. if large creators would advertise nostr BECAUSE of zaps (they make money from platforms), it would have a snowball effect.
I’m not sure we are chatting about the same thing, or I am missing your point. My position is that zaps should not be central. The reason is because any meaningful IRL relationships I have do not involve any monetary exchange as a basis. I maintain that for nostr to grow based on relationships then zaps should be secondary or incidental. My 2 zaps 🤷♂️😄
in a perfect world i totally agree with you but i believe community growth needs to be incentivised somehow.
in my opinion social media "relationships" are mostly one-sided. as in many people on here know @jack, but jack knows only a handful.
my argument is that for the nostr community to grow, you need many more large accounts to advocate for and use nostr. then people follow them to a new platform (or protocol);
and whether this is good or bad, monetary incentives for creators are important - which could be zaps here.
if the goal is to grow nostr, i am not sure how else to achieve that.
We don't need to convince the masses.
We just need to redesign the foundations!
to what end if not grow and make nostr flourish?
To give people the option for freedom.
They must choose it for themselves.
that is an honourable goal.
i hope people are as idealistic as you need them to be for this to be enough.
Well said
Idk about that one. Maybe i'll think differently when a relationship forms through
{"name":"Dating","about":"The dating scene introduce yourself be friendly & get to know each other hit it off!","picture":"https://share.conversations.im/iyoho/S4tsdD4FurKpgtrv/0w1oEJFFQTiqaEC6xQCWLA.jpg"}
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Experimentation is the best way to learn
That's true so i'll see ypu experimenting with people you bring along on Datestr? We got to show people Nostr's got more then one use & is more then just bitcoin : D
Datestr???
Tap it.