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Turns out if you don't like sports, your brain may just be wired to be more independent and less tribal. I can connect with people on a huge number of subjects because I'm well read and well researched. Sports is just one narrow way of connecting with others and honestly, I think it's one of the least meaningful topics to choose.
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A.A.Ron 4 months ago
Ham radio comes close. Just call out CQ CQ CQ and some rando will come back, tell you about his equipment, location, weather, ask anout yours and wish you well.
Same with most all inclusive resorts. Community seating is amazing. I have made lifelong friends this way. —Same with long train rides in Europe 🧡👊🏻🍻
I prefer to talk about the weather. But I'm talking to random elderly people at the park rather than sitting at the bar