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do you really think everyone will start paying for relays and whats stopping it is that we don't have just the right tech for it now? Its a very nicely written article that completely misses the point imho - WHY are people paying for the relays (or rather why aren't they). In a typical fashion of bitcoin/nostr space we wave away the key piece and focus on the tech, but the tech is almost never the problem. If people really had a good reason for paying for relays then they would be kicking down your doors and begging you to take every form of money under the sun just to have the privilege of using the relay. We need to stop the mental masturbation on HOW and give people the WHY
2025-10-31 04:15:09 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 3 replies ↓ Reply
As a relay operator, this is the issue. No one wants to actually pay. nostr:npub1gt9gms5hr3l6548zxgn7xvcvcmzxyzgdsrrelrdwxwmj0exz7jaqdjlxjt is already working on these so called use cases “which paid relay operators are not incentivized to support” without needing ecash. No one wants to pay for relays or media hosting until it bites them in the ass. Many things, like the <$0.5/mo price figure listed on the post, are examples of people’s price expectations for a premium service. These prices are simply unsustainable for relay operators unless there is more demand (that is larger than the current usercount of Nostr).
2025-10-31 04:28:12 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 2 replies ↓ Reply
People don’t want to pay. They also don’t want to see any ads of any form including privacy preserving ones. Then they complain about the crappy service. Then they send 5 paid relays’ worth of money to a grant org controlled by anti-FOSS people that then gets wasted on Pablo’s half baked prototypes.
2025-10-31 04:33:13 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 3 replies ↓ Reply
Well, until ecash I don’t think there’s anyway to have paid relays that can support anonymous npubs, and all the good privacy stuff requires that. So it’s free relays or bust without it. My hope is that it gets so cheap that $1 a year is all that’s needed for low usage folks. I think protonmail is a good analogy. It offers alternatives to googles free options and cost money and there’s definitely a market for that. But lots of people still use Google. The thing I didn’t mention is, AI is forcing publishers and content creators to re-think access. Cloudflare’s pay per crawl and companies like Tollbit are restructuring the web to be payment based, which could help lead the paradigm shift.
2025-10-31 04:37:54 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
You’re not wrong at all small scale. But we’re still at the beginning. Heard someone recently suggest that Nostr wins in the long run because it’s the cockroach that refuses to die. And even projects like signal and simplex run into funding issues to run the relays. I really do think micro payments has been a missing technical component, we’ve never practically been able to stream tiny amounts of money privately. For sure for this all to work Nostr needs to 100x in user count, if not more.
2025-10-31 04:43:16 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 2 replies ↓ Reply
Ecash payments don’t work. Relays being paid per connection or per event is not a sustainable model as the cost for the operatoe is mostly the same even if you post 50 times a day or 1. And $0.5/mo doesn’t work unless you have millions and millions of users that all pay *to a single service*. No one selling it for that cheap will provide you a quality service. You also can’t reach the required scale for economies of scale without people paying for relays *now*.
2025-10-31 04:48:03 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 3 replies ↓ Reply
what do you mean save our relays? the relays don't need saving. I don't see very many relays going bankrupt. Many relays are still alive and will continue to keep going. I run a relay too and mine doesn't need saving.
2025-10-31 05:10:22 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
x seems big because it's full of freeloaders, scammers and bots, nostr is not for freeloaders, it's organic and will win because it's not full of freeloaders. If you want to play, you must pay!
2025-10-31 05:19:24 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Nostr.land does 5k sats/mo for an aggregator and 5 other types of relays in one. One time fees for relays as done by some big relays are ponzi schemes. New users subsidize the cost required to provide services to older users, as server costs are recurring, but payments are not.
2025-10-31 06:08:03 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 2 replies ↓ Reply
I think we need this kind of payment scheme if we want paid relays behind the more modern privacy capabilities. The thinking is that with the new era of privacy apps on Nostr, that would attract more users and incentivize paying. One could argue that it’s never been tried to have signal or simplex like privacy on Nostr paid by ecash before… and those are just the chat style apps
2025-10-31 07:37:42 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
ecash based models tie prices to nonsense metrics that push high activity users away while undercharging low activity users even though they use a similar amount of resources in the grand scale of things, which is not correlated to “activity” measured in events
2025-10-31 13:59:01 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Correct on subscription pay. Disagree on ads. This narrative is pushed by a fringe cult within Nostr. Ads fuel every platform that exists today and has existed for 50yrs. Ads will be a part of Nostr. But in a way that's: -Tolerable, not obnoxious -Private, not spyware -Respectful of users time/attention -Funds creators, relays, clients I'm working on bringing all this together in a way that works. Nostr diehards can hate me all they want, but the current model won't sustain the ecosystem. Responsible ads will.
2025-10-31 14:09:00 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
Stupid model, but that works almost everywhere. You're kind of describing support departments. The are entirely funded off added cost to the purchase price of the product, but more accurately, customers who paid for the product and didn't use support paid for other people to use support. The same goes for shipping in a slightly different context. We made a model of weighted averages where essentially a "tax" was added to the median products to subsidize the shipping cost on the larger products. So the more frequent purchases made up the difference for the more infrequent (heavier/long distance) purchases. obvi this happens everywhere, I just wanted to break down that this is not new and companies everywhere do something similar because selling anything almost anywhere is "unsustainable" in many ways.
2025-10-31 16:04:55 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
Yeah but in this case, it’s a one time fee for a recurring expense. And the amount of money that comes in has to keep increasing over time semi-exponentially to be sustainable, or the costs need to be cut (you get worse service). This is worse than cross subsidization which is doable if managed right.
2025-10-31 16:07:03 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 2 replies ↓ Reply
Which I see that you recognize here. This model works _realy_ well to make offering products sustainable. Distribution is the right word I suppose. nostr:nevent1qvzqqqqqqypzq5455pmtewaacws6a73hxkqkea6fjwcm3keq9vqu3q7930nl4k9aqydhwumn8ghj7argv4nx7un9wd6zumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qqs0eklzt2c24g9nwalnmyxmp8jtln0m3e2ffahzl6y5f8fty29yfuq408rt3
2025-10-31 16:14:53 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
you have fees, taxes, customer support, the volume of data at that many users is huge, software devs etc. and then there needs to be money left to reinvest into the product
2025-10-31 16:16:08 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
Event volume is also disconnected from real load. It just means you push out high-event-volume customers that may actually cost the same (less active time per day/data fetched) So it just makes the problem worse than it would have been with an “accurate” usage model.
2025-10-31 16:21:03 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
But yes, the pricing is designed with the “average customer” as the target on Nostr.land. There is no good usage metric and users shouldn’t have to worry about quotas unless you are in the 99.9%p.
2025-10-31 16:22:34 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
> Yeah but in this case, it’s a one time fee for a recurring expense Yeah it hides the actual cost of offering a service. Appealing to user's ideals, which in some cases is useful. As someone who prefers one-time costs over reoccurring costs, I also understand that unless you can accurately bill me, its not a true model. While it's nice to save money when purchasing bulk, I prefer up-front costs for a sense of "freedom" and "completeness". I still think it's possible to sell accurately priced products with longer time frames. The same distribution still occurs right, if I pay you up front, you have access to more capital, which can be more valuable compared to minimum short term payments. Therefore a tax is added to short term payment plans and/or a discount applied to initial payments/contracts.
2025-10-31 16:22:38 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
The point of ads is it goes to the infrastructure. Enough to fund it and that’s it. If you want to get paid for viewing then you could use another microapp for that.
2025-10-31 16:25:24 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
A one time price in this case is one layer of abstraction too far. It is unpredictable how long a lifetime user will stay, while relay costs are easily translateable to a “average cost per user per month” with little variance.
2025-10-31 16:26:14 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
do you need $5k/mo in hardware? yes, paying a dev salary has been exceedingly difficult for over a decade, but i wouldn't expect a relay to need full time support? dunno. i have 128 epyc cores, 1TB of RAM, and 20 TB of disk space for less than $5k up front 🤷
2025-10-31 16:27:02 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
In software, where the recurring cost is maintenance (and can be bound to a few years per edition), it is much easier to model one time edition fees (which is a good model!) But in “cloud” the recurring costs are not time-bound and there is no product without recurring costs.
2025-10-31 16:27:45 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
You don’t need $5k/mo just for HW. You need it for HW + dev combined. You’d need some level of redundancy and customer support as well, and to be able to dedicate enough time to it which could mean dropping a job.
2025-10-31 16:28:53 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Accurate and fair. I would agree lifetime is too far out. At least on the hardware side of things, it generally apears to be within about the 60-month lease window where prices are somewhat stable. When new hardware is released from Nvidia, or Dell, or HP, give it about 1-2 years for machines to ship, then cost of new products and derivative products go up, and old harware sells of in proportion to new hardware prices. Meaning new hardware has steadily increased in MSRP, and older hardware prices fall in proportion. So machines appear to be losing their value "slower".
2025-10-31 16:34:02 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
People do pay for relays for many reasons. I'd enumerate them, but honestly the list is long and I've studied it for many years now so I would probably just sound like a rambling idiot posting into the void. The key point is, relays are valuable to users and hard to run. Getting used to running them, that's wise if you believe in nostr's future.
2025-10-31 16:56:24 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Paying for attention is good. nostr:nprofile1qqszpreneylpzvlvhdzy4sp6mucdgg307a7jypn7a3t8860hfs8fp2gpz4mhxue69uhk2er9dchxummnw3ezumrpdejqzrthwden5te0dehhxtnvdakqv4lmha is working on a variation of this. Biggest problem to overcome is spam/trust. Otherwise I build a botnet of fake npubs to watch your ads and run you dry, with zero value to the advertiser. So that feature needs to built after every other part of Nostr IMO.
2025-10-31 21:19:33 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Yes that's the general idea of the #atttentionmarketplace we're building at nostr:nprofile1qqs0xgvyaeact5khdrllmk7r936mhmtdjt3d6sm3g2h4c5qgd5wp00cprpmhxue69uhkv6tvw3jhytnwdaehgu3wwa5kuef0qyghwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnhd9hx2tcqfttnh. Opt-in, set your price, watch and get paid. We charge a 20% service fee on the whole campaign,but also split that 50/50 that with referrals. So really only 10% to keep a premium experience running. And everyone gets paid.
2025-11-01 11:43:14 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Renting at least gives you the option to upgrade to newer hardware without much cost change, at an overall premium in prices. But it also means you do not need someone in the DC to do physical work. Anything more than a few years also reduces your flexibility, and increases the "lag" between cost changes if any happen => you passing them on => you getting paid
2025-11-01 12:19:16 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply