I’m closer to 50 than I am to 40 now, & I can tell you this with confidence: Nothing… absolutely Nothing that came easily in my life turned out to be truly substantial in the end. Easy wins have a way of fading. Their value diminishes with time because little time & energy was invested to earn them. But the things I buckled down for, struggled through, toiled over, & poured my time, energy & focus into… those are the things that became beautiful. Those are the things that became meaningful. Those are the things that have endured. The greatest rewards in life are rarely found on the shortest path. Short- sightedness is dust in the wind. Patience, effort, & perseverance are what compound into something fkn monumental.

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That’s never a guarantee. I have invested a lot of time and energy on a few things, with a lot faith and courage, just to end up in failure with nothing fruitful or meaningful coming out of it. There’s always an element of luck involved. If it worked for somebody doesn’t mean it’ll work out for you. Sorry for the negativity but I’m just being real.
I can think of a couple cases where someone might argue it was luck and I fell into it. Each time there was still a substantial effort to be in the place and time and have the right traits to take advantage. Think lucking into a great job. That ignores all the effort that went into being qualified and having the reputation that was required to be possible for you to be the "lucky" one when that moment of chance happened.
Hard is not the point. Plenty of hard things waste your life. The real test is what the effort makes of you. Does it make you wiser? More useful? More honest? More rooted? Easy wins give you a moment. Earned wins give you a foundation. That’s why they last. You don’t just get the thing. You become the person who can carry it.
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grey 2 days ago
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Luck means being at the right place, at the right time, doing the right thing.
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Satsman Says 2 days ago
Not even being contrarian on purpose but the opposite happened for me My talents & interests aka “play” is what brought me my biggest wins in life. These were free. Given to me. Easy The things I had to “work” for ground me like a cheese grater leaving me irreparably damaged. These were things I toiled for. Hard. Fuck that. YMMV. #satsman #TangentiallyRelated image View quoted note →
Feels like the basics of being human. * Developing your marriage. * Spending time with your children & raising them well. * Taking care of your diet, health & exercising. * Building a career * Friendships. * Mastering your craft or hobby * Saving & investing. * Gardening * stacking sats & HODLing, of course!
Tolkien put this precisely: "The greatest adventure is what lies ahead. Today and tomorrow are yet to be said." But there's something deeper in his work — the easy path is always offered. The Ring could go to the sea or the fire of Mordor. Only one of those routes requires real effort. The one that requires nothing is also the one that solves nothing.